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For those of you not familiar with Rom Wills, we have a number of his books here is the first in his Nice Guys and Players series. It wasn’t here so I bought it 2 months back and had a chance to convert it and all that fun stuff for you guys.Before I post the official description and an excerpt from the book, I wanted to tell you guys, I’ve devoured a lot of material on here and his is the closest to what I have come across in the real world. I grew up around some players that mentored me to how to get with women. And I grew up around other men who were deep into the sexual underworld. I am one of the “select” guys he talks about. Early in life, I only dealt with women in relationships, which made it convenient for me not to have a real relationship. I also developed deep trust issues and struggled to make relationships work. I read a lot of seduction material to flesh out and explain what I had experienced. This has helped me remain faithful and become a better partner and husband over time. I wish these books were around when I was a kid. I would have been better off reading anyone of these over Iceberg Slim or Donald Goines.His books are mostly written from an African-American perspective (that’s his core audience) and still they are applicable across races.More men need to read his work. It’s not about game, as most people know it. It is more about the underlying dynamics of relationships and the things men can do to evolve.From Amazonhttps://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B0108U77RK/:Are you a nice guy constantly passed over by women? Are you a player who can get every woman except the one you love?THIS BOOK IS FOR YOU!!!Learn the secret to attracting women. Find out why women pass over nice guys and go for players. Discover the physical and personality traits women find attractive. Learn the methods to generate sexual chemistry. FOR MEN LOOKING FOR FULFILLING RELATIONSHIPS AND THE WOMEN WHO LOVE THEM.Nice Guys And Players Excerpt:Women, regardless of their race or class, tend to put men into  two categories, select and non-select.   The men in the select group are generally handsome, successful, and  charismatic. These men can walk  into a room full of 100 women and 70 of them will find the men attractive.  These are the men women will be most  receptive to.  The men in the  non-select group can walk into a room full of 100 women and are lucky if 10  women even notice them.  These men are generally invisible to women.Jonathan is one of the select.  He is handsome, has a muscular build, a  high paying job, dresses stylishly, has a beautiful condo in an upscale  neighborhood, and owns a late model luxury car.  Jonathan knows he’s the man and is conceited.  When he walks into a  club, women go crazy.  They display  their legs, breasts, or whatever they think will draw Jonathan’s attention.   Women even go up to Jonathan and ask him to dance.   They may buy him a drink. Jonathan takes for granted he will walk out of the club with the woman of  his choice.Barry is one of the non-select. Barry is average looking on a  good day. He has a slim build,  average job, cheap looking clothes, shares an apartment in a working class  neighborhood, and doesn’t own a car.   Barry is the type of man who will one day be a millionaire but doesn’t  act like it because of his modesty.   Barry will walk into a club and women won’t even glance his way.  Barry will ask several women to dance  and they will turn him down only to dance with another man a few minutes  later.  The few women who do talk  to Barry want him to buy them expensive drinks.  At the end of the night Barry leaves  the club the same way he arrived, alone.The key thing to remember about the select and non-select groups  is that it is all based on the woman’s perception. In ten years Jonathan may be overweight, without a job, and back living  with his parents while Barry may be a millionaire businessman with a mansion and  built like Tyson Beckford.  Barry  is the better based on his personality and ambition but he doesn’t have what it  takes to attract women to him at first.   A man has to be attractive in some way to have a woman choose him  initially. Women don’t have the  time or energy to check out every single man they come across. Women try to determine on first look whether or not a man has it going  on.  At the very least, women try  to determine if the man is worth getting to know.   When women talk about the shortage of good men what they really mean is  there is a shortage of men in the select  group.