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Product DescriptionAll the communication tools couples need to take their sex life to a new levelprefaceSex Talk offers you ideas and concepts to use in your pursuitof pleasure. Sex Talk is a guideline for developing thrivinglines of communication for a more honest and successfulrelationship. Sex Talk is a compilation of techniques andpractices that inform and demonstrate how to experiencethe ecstasy of electrifying sex. It is your manifesto to open,gratifying, and successful intimate discussions. Sex Talkdetails the secrets to developing and perpetuating respectand desire for more loving and joyous connections.Sex Talk is a key to unlocking the attitudes and emotionsthat allow certain sexual pleasures, yet restrict others.These methods open doors to visions of unique, unfamiliar,and spectacular sexuality that may have gone unexploredThere you are, in the throes of passion, when suddenly, your partner shifts, just a tiny bit. Instead of plateauing, you begin to plummet. Communication is so important, but it’s so difficult to tell your lover exactly what you want, exactly when you want it. Maybe you don’t want to hurt his feelings, or make him think he isn’t a good lover. Maybe you just don’t know what words to use. Or maybe you don’t even know what you want yourself, or you’re embarrassed, or shy, or reluctant to ask.But sharing our sexual needs and wants will not only enhance sexual pleasure, it will enhance the love and the overall relationship as well.When we know what to say and feel comfortable enough to say the words needed to stimulate particular sexual activity, we feel safer and more contented. On the other hand, when we hold ourselves back, we may feel frustrated and even angry, feelings that are destructive to any relationship.Written by sex therapist Carole Altman (Electrify Your Sex Life), Sex Talk will give couples all the tools they need to communicate everything, including fantasies and fetishes, preferences and desires, in a way that will make their sex life even more exciting and explosive.ll the communication tools couples need to take their sex life to a new level. There you are, in the throes of passion, when suddenly, your partner shifts, just a tiny bit. Instead of plateauing, you begin to plummet. Communication is so important, but it’s so difficult to tell your lover exactly what youwant, exactly when you want it. Maybe you don’t want to hurt his feelings, or make him think he isn’t a good lover. Maybe you just don’t know what words to use. Or maybe you don’t even know what you want yourself, or you’re embarrassed, or shy, or reluctant to ask. But sharing our sexual needs and wants will not only enhance sexual pleasure, it will enhance the love and the overall relationship as well. When we know what to say and feel comfortable enough to say the words needed to stimulate particular sexual activity, we feel safer and more contented.On the other hand, when we hold ourselves back, we may feel frustrated and even angry, feelings that are destructive to any relationship. Written by sex therapist Carole Altman (Electrify Your Sex Life), Sex Talk will give couples all the tools they need to communicate everything, including fantasies and fetishes, preferences and desires, in a way that will make their sex life even more exciting and explosive.About the AuthorCarole Altman, Ph.D., is a psychotherapist specializing in sex therapy. She is the author of Electrify Your Sex Life. She lives and works in New York City. Preface. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . viiChapter 1. Introduction . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 1Chapter 2. Finding the Words—Creating the Atmosphere . . 29Chapter 3. What You Want and How To Ask for It . . . . . . 43Chapter 4. Sexual Needs—Pleasures and Vulnerabilities . . 65Chapter 5. Sexual Pleasures—Body Part by Body Part . . 93Chapter 6. The Sounds of Sex. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 105Chapter 7. Sex Games for Fun, Stimulation,and Pleasure . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 123Chapter 8. The Pleasure of Fantasies . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 139Chapter 9. Enjoying a Fetish . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 155Chapter 10. Spiritual Sex Talk . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 165Chapter 11. Sharing Emotions—What Do You Want &What Do You Need? . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 185Chapter 12. Demystifying What Sex Should Be . . . . . . . 211