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Please keep this in elib.tech. Thanks.Be a Great Listener There is no better friend than a friend with great listening skills. Being listened to makes you feel interesting, valued and cared for. Think how you feel when you are talking to someone but you know they are not really listening. They might be smiling but their eyes are wandering; they look bored or their conversation is disconnected from what you’ve just been speaking about. Real listening skills involve actively listening to someone to show them they are important and interesting enough for you to remember what they have told you. The skill of knowing how to make people feel special and worthwhile is priceless and people will love you for it. In our hurried, crowded and busy times the ability to be able to give great quality attention through advanced listening skills is becoming rarer. Good listening skills develop emotional connections:It’s possible to be with someone physically but not emotionally. People will like, respect and connect with you better if you know how to truly make them feel listened to and understood. To connect with someone you need to naturally build rapport with them. Part of how you do this is to actively listen to them. Having great listening skills enhances your social confidence because you stop focusing on yourself and direct your attention onto the other person – the opposite of self consciousness. Listening skills make you more confident:When you truly listen to someone you increase their confidence, which is why they love it, but you also become more socially confident yourself. Socially anxious people tend just to focus on themselves during social times or if they do think about others it’s only to imagine what these other people might be thinking about them! So the focus is still towards the self. To actively listen you need to relax and be receptive and having great listening skills will mean that people are able to relax with you. This download session is going to program your instincts so that great listening skills become second nature to you. You’ll also benefit from the deep and healthy relaxation.